I am pretty new to this community, so please work with me if I sound like I don't know what Im doing. lol
I have a friend I met online years ago. I got married during our friendship, and cut off our relationship. The guy is about 16 years older than me. I am in my lower 30s. I guess he never forgot about me , because about a month ago, I got a phone call on my parents house phone, and it was him. This was very odd to me, because I had NEVER gave out my information to him, or anyone. Just my name. No one ever has called me there, and I never want anyone to either. He told me that he googled me for 6 months, and literally found everything out about me. It was pretty frightening actually, and although he sounded extra happy he had found me, I really wasn't.
I felt horrible and gave him my number to text me. It isn't my actual cell number, but an application I use, kinda like messenger , when I don't want someone to have my personal number. Lately, he has been telling me how much he loves me, and how he wants me to come live with him. He has just really started to annoy me, and I want to let him go, for good, but I want to do it gently, not harshly. I'm afraid that I will be WAY to hard on him. He was my friend, for a long time, and i did care about him, but now , he is just odd, and i don't like him at all. I don't know how to handle this. If anyone has any feedback, please message me. Especially a male. I would think they would have great insight. I'll take help from either side though.
Thanks so much for reading!!
Hugs and Love,